“Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family”
by Amy Ellis Nutt
Published by Random House
Finished 8/19/16 – 5/5 stars!
When I saw the picture of Nicole on the cover of this book,
I remembered seeing her in a documentary I watched a few years back regarding
transgenders. I immediately knew it was
a book I wanted to read. I don’t know
any transgenders personally (that I know of) but I do know there are a couple
at my daughters’ high school and that our county is one of those currently struggling
to provide equal rights to those children in our school system. I am very supportive of that cause and hope
they do the right thing, but wanted to read more about Nicole’s journey to get
a better understanding of what these children go through and the effects it has
on them and their families. This book
definitely delivered.
Some people think a person’s sexual orientation or gender
identity is a choice….it’s not. It is
not something you just change….you are born that way. It’s a matter of accepting it and adjusting
life to embrace one’s true self. I believe
this book can help people understand that.
Maybe open some doors and windows to those living close-minded lives, to
become more accepting of others that aren’t like them, that might go against
their religious beliefs. Knowledge is
the key – this book can provide some of that.
Whatever your beliefs, I hope you will take the time to read
this book. If nothing else, it will let
you know what it’s like to be a little boy that wants nothing to do with being
a boy. He’s a “girl-boy” and prefers it
that way until he can realize his dream of truly becoming a girl – to then
dress how she wants, act how she wants, and be accepted as one of the
girls. Because truly, that is what she
is. The innocent minds of children can
accept her as she is, it’s those darn close minded adults that get in the
way.
I give this book 5 out of 5 stars, not because it’s beautifully
written or a great literary piece. I
give it 5 stars because it is a wonderful story of love and commitment, finding
one’s self, supporting others, diversity, and acceptance. It’s not preachy or critical, it’s honest and
educational (without feeling educational).
It is truly moving.